For some no particular reason I can’t fathom these bitching that always happen every time there’s a gathering of friends and false friends…
I dislike people who are not happy with how other person manage to get a better self be it a more comfortable life, slimmer that her usual self or just for nothing extraordinary.
Some downright statements that were not asked for like…
“Oh, what happened to you? You look so ugly!!! Why your face like that? No, you’re not slimmer, you’re still fat nothing is changed with your body only your face!!!”
What the hell is the problem of this person? Come on! Accept the fact that she’s looking better, she lost some pounds of her weight and just be happy for her. STOP being tactless. Her mindless ramblings were so nonsense and it was way off the normal bahavior of a considerate and finesse individual. BEING UNEDUCATED is not an excuse. This person has the habit of hitting below the belt with her rough attitude, insensitivity and her lack of courtesy in dealing with others.
Being unmindful of what others may feel and so careless to the point that it’s so clear that her wagging tongue serves just for the evil purpose. She blabbers with nonsensical things.
Insulting another person repeatedly just to make that person feel bad and so she’ll feel good. Oh, get a life for yourself!
Why it’s not easy to praise others when in fact it will cost you nothing. Come on, putting a smile into someone’s lips with your positive remarks will make someone happy and I guess will make you also feel good with yourself that you are capable of doing good things to others, even just like that, a simple praise and just being sensitive to other’s feelings.
Even for my daughter I abhor those people be it a friend or just a mere acquaintance who’ll say negative things on her especially her skin color. My son has a fairer skin than my daughter and most of the time some people give some nasty remarks on it. To tell you frankly, I want to blow their noses for doing that but being a civilized person I just hold myself from doing it. She has a beautiful brown skin and if it does not look appealing on you then don’t say a thing and it will cost you nothing!
I also hate other people giving unsolicited advices especially in child rearing. As mothers we always want the best for our children and we do the best for them and don’t ever tell me what’s the best for my kids coz every child is different so what ever is effective to your kid may not be applicable to mine.
The word is narcissism, wants always to remind others that she/he know everything and so she/he can have the role of the “teacher” and wants to hear themselves pontificate.
Okay it’s harmless but you can keep it to yourself not unless I ask it from you.
The list goes on…and as well as the bitching!
Giving trust and respect to someone but it seems that they are giving no value to the respect and trust you’ve given. Sharing some problems to close friends and finding out that even a kiddo of a friend of your friend has something to say with it because “it’s being discussed in their home?” even that for adults only.