Talking the Toddler-ease way to Princess is very applicable whenever she is in her tantrumland.
And if sheâ€™s in her calm self you can talk to her the normal way, but if sheâ€™s having some bad day (which only occur if she lacks sleep, deprived of some chocolates and sweetsâ€”coz we donâ€™t want her to be addicted to sweets, or if momsy or dada do not want to give in to what she wants, yesâ€¦sheâ€™s a demanding toddler!) the following course of action should take place: a.) Talk to her in short phrases b.) Talk to her in a low tone c.)Repeat what she wants to convey in that way sheâ€™s assured that you really listened and understand her d.)Use a facial expression and body language that shows that you care and respect her.
Shouting back at her would do no good and bears only more defiance in her part. Sheâ€™s a tough kiddo and it will only make her tougher.